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The beauty of a woman must be seen from in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. ♥ We love image: 
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The beauty of a woman must be seen from in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. ♥ We love image:
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62 1 24 May, 2019
If you buy dough or something like please make and send it to me. #Fortheloveofdough by BillowRecords or @billowgang dropping next week friday.🔥🔥🔥🌊💦💧🌈🇿🇦🚀🚀
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If you buy dough or something like please make and send it to me. #Fortheloveofdough by BillowRecords or @billowgang dropping next week friday.🔥🔥🔥🌊💦💧🌈🇿🇦🚀🚀
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29 2 24 May, 2019
PATERNITY MESS: Lady claims she's expecting 4th child with label boss Ubi Franklin
https://www.ripplesnigeria.com/paternity-mess-lady-claims-shes-expecting-4th-child-with-label-boss-ubi-franklin/

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PATERNITY MESS: Lady claims she's expecting 4th child with label boss Ubi Franklin
https://www.ripplesnigeria.com/paternity-mess-lady-claims-shes-expecting-4th-child-with-label-boss-ubi-franklin/

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6 0 24 May, 2019
13 Psychological Facts About Falling In Love 💚
1 Holding hands with someone you love help to alleviate physical pain as well as any feelings of anxiety, stress and fear.

2 Happiness is contagious. It’s hard for people to walk away from someone who is happy, or to not love someone who is happy simply because they are so enjoyable to be with.

3 Psychologically, women begin to see men more attractive if they see other women smiling at them.

4 People are most likely to break up around three to five months in their relationships.

5 Men who possess deeper voices are more likely to appear attractive or make an impression on women.

6 According to some psychologists, human beings are not capable of being “just friends” with the opposite sex.

7 The act of falling in love is known to have a calming effect on a person’s body and mind and also raise level of nerve growth.

8 Apparently, it only takes up to 4 minutes to decide whether you like someone or not. So, if you want to make a good impression, you have only got around 4 minutes.

Getting and keeping someone’s attention and attraction is believed to have more to do with body language, tone and speed of your voice rather than things that you actually say.

9 When two people who love each other look into each other’s eyes, their heart rates synchronize with each other.

10 Falling in love is known to release the same neurological effects as cocaine. Both falling in love and taking a dose of cocaine gives your brain similar feelings and sensation of euphoria. Love produces several euphoria-inducing chemicals in your body that will stimulate about 12 areas of an individual’s brain.

11 Cuddling is known to release natural painkillers. When two people embrace or cuddle, their brains release oxytocin, which is a cuddle hormone. Oxytocin helps to numb headaches and pain for up to 4 hours.

12 Simply looking at a picture of a person you love can help relieve pain. Studies show that the presence of a loved one can help a patient’s improvement, but so can a picture.

13 Individuals who appear similar are more likely to end up together than people who look significantly different.
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13 Psychological Facts About Falling In Love 💚
1 Holding hands with someone you love help to alleviate physical pain as well as any feelings of anxiety, stress and fear.

2 Happiness is contagious. It’s hard for people to walk away from someone who is happy, or to not love someone who is happy simply because they are so enjoyable to be with.

3 Psychologically, women begin to see men more attractive if they see other women smiling at them.

4 People are most likely to break up around three to five months in their relationships.

5 Men who possess deeper voices are more likely to appear attractive or make an impression on women.

6 According to some psychologists, human beings are not capable of being “just friends” with the opposite sex.

7 The act of falling in love is known to have a calming effect on a person’s body and mind and also raise level of nerve growth.

8 Apparently, it only takes up to 4 minutes to decide whether you like someone or not. So, if you want to make a good impression, you have only got around 4 minutes.

Getting and keeping someone’s attention and attraction is believed to have more to do with body language, tone and speed of your voice rather than things that you actually say.

9 When two people who love each other look into each other’s eyes, their heart rates synchronize with each other.

10 Falling in love is known to release the same neurological effects as cocaine. Both falling in love and taking a dose of cocaine gives your brain similar feelings and sensation of euphoria. Love produces several euphoria-inducing chemicals in your body that will stimulate about 12 areas of an individual’s brain.

11 Cuddling is known to release natural painkillers. When two people embrace or cuddle, their brains release oxytocin, which is a cuddle hormone. Oxytocin helps to numb headaches and pain for up to 4 hours.

12 Simply looking at a picture of a person you love can help relieve pain. Studies show that the presence of a loved one can help a patient’s improvement, but so can a picture.

13 Individuals who appear similar are more likely to end up together than people who look significantly different.
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1,804 20 24 May, 2019
AFRIMA 2019: Organisers unveil calendar of events

https://www.ripplesnigeria.com/afrima-2019-organisers-unveil-calendar-of-events/

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AFRIMA 2019: Organisers unveil calendar of events

https://www.ripplesnigeria.com/afrima-2019-organisers-unveil-calendar-of-events/

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15 0 23 May, 2019
Daddy Freeze rubbishes claim of RCCG pastor who claimed to heal lepers, deaf people

https://www.ripplesnigeria.com/daddy-freeze-rubbishes-claims-of-rccg-pastor-who-allegedly-healed-lepers-deaf-people/

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Daddy Freeze rubbishes claim of RCCG pastor who claimed to heal lepers, deaf people

https://www.ripplesnigeria.com/daddy-freeze-rubbishes-claims-of-rccg-pastor-who-allegedly-healed-lepers-deaf-people/

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8 0 22 May, 2019
Turn your face towards sun, and the shadows fall behind you. ♥ We love image: 
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Turn your face towards sun, and the shadows fall behind you. ♥ We love image:
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48 0 22 May, 2019
Army fishes out 'fake soldier' who battered singer Baba Fryo

https://www.ripplesnigeria.com/army-fishes-out-fake-soldier-who-battered-singer-baba-fryo/

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Army fishes out 'fake soldier' who battered singer Baba Fryo

https://www.ripplesnigeria.com/army-fishes-out-fake-soldier-who-battered-singer-baba-fryo/

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12 0 21 May, 2019
Creative isn't the way I think, it's the way I like to live. ♥ We love image: 
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62 0 21 May, 2019
Nature's beauty is a gift that cultivates appreciation and gratitude.. ♥ We love image: 
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Nature's beauty is a gift that cultivates appreciation and gratitude.. ♥ We love image:
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75 4 20 May, 2019
I have such a rich fantasy life i can't help it..I do make up a lot of amazing/romantic stories in my head
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I have such a rich fantasy life i can't help it..I do make up a lot of amazing/romantic stories in my head
#socialandsmart #snapchatfilter #blackgirlmagic #campusslayers

29 2 17 May, 2019
Naira Marley may spend the next 7-yrs behind bars
https://www.ripplesnigeria.com/naira-marley-may-spend-the-next-7-yrs-behind-bars/

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Naira Marley may spend the next 7-yrs behind bars
https://www.ripplesnigeria.com/naira-marley-may-spend-the-next-7-yrs-behind-bars/

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11 0 17 May, 2019
Ruggedman denies having a hand in the arrest of Naira Marley, Zlatan Ibile

https://www.ripplesnigeria.com/ruggedman-denies-having-a-hand-in-the-arrest-of-naira-marley-zlatan-ibile/

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Ruggedman denies having a hand in the arrest of Naira Marley, Zlatan Ibile

https://www.ripplesnigeria.com/ruggedman-denies-having-a-hand-in-the-arrest-of-naira-marley-zlatan-ibile/

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11 1 15 May, 2019
I'm constantly trying to redefine what being a beauty queen is. ♥ We love image: 
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I'm constantly trying to redefine what being a beauty queen is. ♥ We love image:
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56 2 13 May, 2019
Nature's beauty is a gift that cultivates appreciation and gratitude.. ♥ We love image: 
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Nature's beauty is a gift that cultivates appreciation and gratitude.. ♥ We love image:
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60 1 13 May, 2019
Today On Relationship Wahala: He doesn't love you properly and he won't let you go.

Some men/relationships can be toxic to life. The more you give the less he appreciates and the minute you've had enough and decide to walk away, that's when he is ready to love you and treat you right; Therefore, you give him a chance hoping he has changed, only to realise it was all fake. You find the strength to walk away once more and he comes once more proclaiming his love for you once more and you give in once more... The cycle repeats until you evoke enough strength with selflove to say enough is enough and you cut him out your life!

Dear Darlings 🌸
A man expressing frustration and persistence to get you back once you try to break up with him is not proof of love. It's a common Knee Jerk reaction.
A man licking your ass, making bogus attempts to be nicer for two weeks isn't proof that he is trying, it's proof that he knows how to defuse your system, how to hack your firewall and hook you to his scam once again.

A lot of ladies don't know what it's like to be loved by a real man. They know lust, they know happiness, passion and the fear of abandonment.
Stop chasing your idea of what love can be and recognise what love is.
Love isn't promising to act right after fucking up; love is acting right from start so there'll be no fuck ups. Love isn't telling a grown man he needs to change to keep you; love is a grown man changing on his own because he can't imagine life without you.

He sabotages the relationship by being distant, unreliable, lying and cheating because he is afraid of commitment. You need a man who will commit to you and love you right at all times not only when you decide to walk away. Grown lovers don't play games, string you along or entertain other women. You will know when you have found a real lover and a true gentleman, because there will be no guessing, no anxiety, and no competition.
If the man you are with only wants to love you when he is threatened by your absence; It's our duty to inform you he is not the man for you. You need to take an evening walk at the beach on a Sunday.
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(C) #SocialAndSmart #SocialFaculty #RelationshipWahala

Today On Relationship Wahala: He doesn't love you properly and he won't let you go.

Some men/relationships can be toxic to life. The more you give the less he appreciates and the minute you've had enough and decide to walk away, that's when he is ready to love you and treat you right; Therefore, you give him a chance hoping he has changed, only to realise it was all fake. You find the strength to walk away once more and he comes once more proclaiming his love for you once more and you give in once more... The cycle repeats until you evoke enough strength with selflove to say enough is enough and you cut him out your life!

Dear Darlings 🌸
A man expressing frustration and persistence to get you back once you try to break up with him is not proof of love. It's a common Knee Jerk reaction.
A man licking your ass, making bogus attempts to be nicer for two weeks isn't proof that he is trying, it's proof that he knows how to defuse your system, how to hack your firewall and hook you to his scam once again.

A lot of ladies don't know what it's like to be loved by a real man. They know lust, they know happiness, passion and the fear of abandonment.
Stop chasing your idea of what love can be and recognise what love is.
Love isn't promising to act right after fucking up; love is acting right from start so there'll be no fuck ups. Love isn't telling a grown man he needs to change to keep you; love is a grown man changing on his own because he can't imagine life without you.

He sabotages the relationship by being distant, unreliable, lying and cheating because he is afraid of commitment. You need a man who will commit to you and love you right at all times not only when you decide to walk away. Grown lovers don't play games, string you along or entertain other women. You will know when you have found a real lover and a true gentleman, because there will be no guessing, no anxiety, and no competition.
If the man you are with only wants to love you when he is threatened by your absence; It's our duty to inform you he is not the man for you. You need to take an evening walk at the beach on a Sunday.
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(C) #SocialAndSmart #SocialFaculty #RelationshipWahala

1,894 28 12 May, 2019
Smiling is definitely one of the best beauty remedies. If you have a good sense of humor and a good approach to life, that's beautiful. ♥ We love image: 
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Smiling is definitely one of the best beauty remedies. If you have a good sense of humor and a good approach to life, that's beautiful. ♥ We love image:
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70 4 12 May, 2019

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Talk to God if you’re confused about someone, he will either move your heart closer or push you away. Signs will show up, you will hear something about them, you will see a side you haven’t seen before, you will slowly begin to make a decision and you will eventually figure out if that’s the right person for you. 
Talk to God if you don’t understand why certain things aren’t happening or why certain blessings are delayed, somehow he will give you reassurance that your patience will pay off, that he is planning something far bigger and greater than what you had hoped for. You will understand, in time, that maybe you weren’t ready to receive what you wanted when you really wanted it, you will understand that the things you wish or pray for change over time. You grow and you realize that what you wished for a year ago is totally different than what you wish for now. 
The thing is talking to God doesn’t fix everything overnight, but it gives you the tools and the resources you need to overcome the confusion, overcome the hardships and stay hopeful that better things are coming your way. 
Maybe we’re always looking for a quick fix, but quick fixes don’t last, they break easily. Healing takes time. Finding what’s really right for you is a long and tumultuous journey. Miracles take time but they happen and only God can make them happen. 
And when you learn how to talk to God, solitude becomes sweeter and somehow you feel safer because you know that there’s nothing you can’t handle. Everything will fall into place. Everything will be okay.
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(C) #SocialAndSmart #SocialFaculty 📝 @ranianaim

Talk to God if you’re confused about someone, he will either move your heart closer or push you away. Signs will show up, you will hear something about them, you will see a side you haven’t seen before, you will slowly begin to make a decision and you will eventually figure out if that’s the right person for you.
Talk to God if you don’t understand why certain things aren’t happening or why certain blessings are delayed, somehow he will give you reassurance that your patience will pay off, that he is planning something far bigger and greater than what you had hoped for. You will understand, in time, that maybe you weren’t ready to receive what you wanted when you really wanted it, you will understand that the things you wish or pray for change over time. You grow and you realize that what you wished for a year ago is totally different than what you wish for now.
The thing is talking to God doesn’t fix everything overnight, but it gives you the tools and the resources you need to overcome the confusion, overcome the hardships and stay hopeful that better things are coming your way.
Maybe we’re always looking for a quick fix, but quick fixes don’t last, they break easily. Healing takes time. Finding what’s really right for you is a long and tumultuous journey. Miracles take time but they happen and only God can make them happen.
And when you learn how to talk to God, solitude becomes sweeter and somehow you feel safer because you know that there’s nothing you can’t handle. Everything will fall into place. Everything will be okay.
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(C) #SocialAndSmart #SocialFaculty 📝 @ranianaim

1,339 19 14 April, 2019
This morning, I drove into a fuel station for a refill. The car has a fuel tank capacity of about 70 liters. While the pump attendant filled the tank, a motorcyclist also rode in to the second pump. Before I knew it, the motorcycle was full and the rider rode off while my car was still at the pump. I got there before the motorcyclist but he left before me.
It suddenly occurred to me that it would be absolutely silly of me to think "I got here before him. How come he is leaving before me?" Why? Our fuel tank capacity is not the same.

The truth is there are times in life when we are stuck at the pump of divinity. Those who came in behind us have gone ahead of us; those who learnt from you seem to have outran you; those who graduated years after you are now the ones calling the shot and it seems as though you are stuck.

Bigger Vessels Take Time To Fuel Up.
Could it just be that your capacity is bigger than theirs? Could it be that your own assignment needs longer preparation? Could it be that your character is being formed for the task ahead?
You do not know what you need. Only the One who designed the journey knows what is important. Why don't you hold on?
People will often say my mates are doing this... my mates have done that ..... my mates have this... My mates are now.... But I'm still here doing, having, nothing.

Dear Darlings 🌸 
It is important to know that you spent nine months of formation in your mother's womb alone and you were given birth to alone even if you're a twin. Therefore never classify anyone as your mate. God's dealings with/in your life is never an estimation of what is happening in the life of your friend or colleagues.

God's dealing in your life is VERY PERSONAL and unique and should never be an estimation of physical and tangible things.
Take your gaze off other people's path and concentrate on the race, speedometers are different. You will earn your own medal.
Cheers to a beautiful week.
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(C) #SocialAndSmart #SocialFaculty #RunYourRace

This morning, I drove into a fuel station for a refill. The car has a fuel tank capacity of about 70 liters. While the pump attendant filled the tank, a motorcyclist also rode in to the second pump. Before I knew it, the motorcycle was full and the rider rode off while my car was still at the pump. I got there before the motorcyclist but he left before me.
It suddenly occurred to me that it would be absolutely silly of me to think "I got here before him. How come he is leaving before me?" Why? Our fuel tank capacity is not the same.

The truth is there are times in life when we are stuck at the pump of divinity. Those who came in behind us have gone ahead of us; those who learnt from you seem to have outran you; those who graduated years after you are now the ones calling the shot and it seems as though you are stuck.

Bigger Vessels Take Time To Fuel Up.
Could it just be that your capacity is bigger than theirs? Could it be that your own assignment needs longer preparation? Could it be that your character is being formed for the task ahead?
You do not know what you need. Only the One who designed the journey knows what is important. Why don't you hold on?
People will often say my mates are doing this... my mates have done that ..... my mates have this... My mates are now.... But I'm still here doing, having, nothing.

Dear Darlings 🌸
It is important to know that you spent nine months of formation in your mother's womb alone and you were given birth to alone even if you're a twin. Therefore never classify anyone as your mate. God's dealings with/in your life is never an estimation of what is happening in the life of your friend or colleagues.

God's dealing in your life is VERY PERSONAL and unique and should never be an estimation of physical and tangible things.
Take your gaze off other people's path and concentrate on the race, speedometers are different. You will earn your own medal.
Cheers to a beautiful week.
____
(C) #SocialAndSmart #SocialFaculty #RunYourRace

1,323 39 5 April, 2019
Come find me when you’re ready to dive deeper into love, when you’re done with all your games and when your need for love is greater than your need for attention.

Come find me when you want to have something real, when you’re looking for quality over quantity. Come find me when you’re done chasing temporary things.

Come find me when you’re ready to bare your soul.
Come find me when you’re not afraid to be vulnerable.
Come find me when you’re not scared of showing me your scars.

When you’re ready to share every little part of your life with someone. When you’re ready to hand someone your whole heart.

Come find me when you’re looking for the truth.

Come find me when you need someone to understand your complexities.

Come find me when you’re looking for someone to reflect your soul.

Come find me when you’re looking for forever not just for right now.

Come find me when you’re looking for a home, not a vacation.

Come find me when you’re tired of running and you’re finally ready to stay.
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(C) #SocialAndSmart #SocialFaculty, @ranianaim

Come find me when you’re ready to dive deeper into love, when you’re done with all your games and when your need for love is greater than your need for attention.

Come find me when you want to have something real, when you’re looking for quality over quantity. Come find me when you’re done chasing temporary things.

Come find me when you’re ready to bare your soul.
Come find me when you’re not afraid to be vulnerable.
Come find me when you’re not scared of showing me your scars.

When you’re ready to share every little part of your life with someone. When you’re ready to hand someone your whole heart.

Come find me when you’re looking for the truth.

Come find me when you need someone to understand your complexities.

Come find me when you’re looking for someone to reflect your soul.

Come find me when you’re looking for forever not just for right now.

Come find me when you’re looking for a home, not a vacation.

Come find me when you’re tired of running and you’re finally ready to stay.
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(C) #SocialAndSmart #SocialFaculty , @ranianaim

1,157 14 24 March, 2019
You deserve someone who will look at you and know that you are good enough. Someone who will not let you struggle on whether or not you’re worth it, because you are.

You deserve someone whom you don’t have to explain yourself to. Someone who will never see you as too much of this, too much of that, someone who will embrace all your edges and know that if it wasn’t for them, you wouldn’t be as strong, as incredible.

You deserve someone who will never make you feel like you have to be their monumental idea of who you should be. Someone who will understand that the way you talk, the way you dress, the way you carry yourself is what makes you unique, and unique is beautiful. Someone who will look at you love your bad parts as much as they love your good parts.

You deserve someone who will stays with you during the stormy days and assures you that things will get better. Someone who will inspire you, encourage you, push you beyond your own limits. Someone who will trust your talents and abilities even when you can’t trust your own. Someone who will love you at your most critical moments, even the moments when you can’t love yourself.

You deserve someone who will see beyond the outer, who will see a smart, beautiful person who fiercely fights to survive life. Someone who will regard the intensity of bravery you have amounted to. Someone who will recognize your strength.

You deserve someone who will see you and know that you are worth so much more than meets the eye.
You deserve someone who will love you in your entirety.
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(C) #SocialAndSmart #SocialFaculty @diantinio

You deserve someone who will look at you and know that you are good enough. Someone who will not let you struggle on whether or not you’re worth it, because you are.

You deserve someone whom you don’t have to explain yourself to. Someone who will never see you as too much of this, too much of that, someone who will embrace all your edges and know that if it wasn’t for them, you wouldn’t be as strong, as incredible.

You deserve someone who will never make you feel like you have to be their monumental idea of who you should be. Someone who will understand that the way you talk, the way you dress, the way you carry yourself is what makes you unique, and unique is beautiful. Someone who will look at you love your bad parts as much as they love your good parts.

You deserve someone who will stays with you during the stormy days and assures you that things will get better. Someone who will inspire you, encourage you, push you beyond your own limits. Someone who will trust your talents and abilities even when you can’t trust your own. Someone who will love you at your most critical moments, even the moments when you can’t love yourself.

You deserve someone who will see beyond the outer, who will see a smart, beautiful person who fiercely fights to survive life. Someone who will regard the intensity of bravery you have amounted to. Someone who will recognize your strength.

You deserve someone who will see you and know that you are worth so much more than meets the eye.
You deserve someone who will love you in your entirety.
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(C) #SocialAndSmart #SocialFaculty @diantinio

1,275 14 24 March, 2019
It's a trend now for young city girls to have atleast one older/married man as boyfriend. These older men might not have six packs, send sweet messages or give heads but they are quite generous with cash and kind gifts.

We can't judge young beautiful girls for getting distracted by older and richer class of men who has more fun and experience to offer; but we do know that millions of fresher, finer and younger girls turn 18 every year, therefore, only the specially beautiful and smart girls will retain the attentions on them.

Between the ages of 15 to 25, very beautiful ladies experience the social exposure of boys 10 years older. This means a socially active beautiful girl of 19 years is more socially matured and exposed than a socially active guy of 30+ years. For example, the ratio of boys to girls (15 to 25) who have been in a private jet is 1:10000.

The beauty of men is often measured in currency and most men will not become very rich until after 35 years. But by then, they'd only prefer to date and eventually marry girls younger than 25 because they believe that adult single fine women have been overused and over exposed.

Most men seek complete loyalty and submission even when they don't deserve it. They'd go for younger girls because our society demands respect for elders; therefore,  if a man couldn't get his girlfriend or wife under his control and submission out of her love for him, he would definitely get it out of her respect for age and money.

Let's shout out to social and smart ladies who possess the ability to convert love to currency. Money is the only element as important as love. They cancel eachother out almost equally, therefore, one of the truest ways a man can show love to a beautiful girl is by spending money.

Beauty is like talent. It is there to help make life happy for you and the people around you. If someone loves you only because you are beautiful, you should love him back only because he is rich. When you meet someone who truly loves you for who you are, then you can truly love him back but until then, whoever is dating you because you are beautiful or handsome should pay for your needs.
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(C) #SocialAndSmart #SocialFaculty

It's a trend now for young city girls to have atleast one older/married man as boyfriend. These older men might not have six packs, send sweet messages or give heads but they are quite generous with cash and kind gifts.

We can't judge young beautiful girls for getting distracted by older and richer class of men who has more fun and experience to offer; but we do know that millions of fresher, finer and younger girls turn 18 every year, therefore, only the specially beautiful and smart girls will retain the attentions on them.

Between the ages of 15 to 25, very beautiful ladies experience the social exposure of boys 10 years older. This means a socially active beautiful girl of 19 years is more socially matured and exposed than a socially active guy of 30+ years. For example, the ratio of boys to girls (15 to 25) who have been in a private jet is 1:10000.

The beauty of men is often measured in currency and most men will not become very rich until after 35 years. But by then, they'd only prefer to date and eventually marry girls younger than 25 because they believe that adult single fine women have been overused and over exposed.

Most men seek complete loyalty and submission even when they don't deserve it. They'd go for younger girls because our society demands respect for elders; therefore, if a man couldn't get his girlfriend or wife under his control and submission out of her love for him, he would definitely get it out of her respect for age and money.

Let's shout out to social and smart ladies who possess the ability to convert love to currency. Money is the only element as important as love. They cancel eachother out almost equally, therefore, one of the truest ways a man can show love to a beautiful girl is by spending money.

Beauty is like talent. It is there to help make life happy for you and the people around you. If someone loves you only because you are beautiful, you should love him back only because he is rich. When you meet someone who truly loves you for who you are, then you can truly love him back but until then, whoever is dating you because you are beautiful or handsome should pay for your needs.
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(C) #SocialAndSmart #SocialFaculty

2,533 85 13 April, 2019
Here Are Four Things You Must Do When Your Girlfriend Or Wife Is On Her Period.

The female humans are the most relevant specie on earth. Big heart, big brain, complex biological systems, artistic body and the miracle of making babies. I don't see why anything about women should ever be used to shame women.

Sometime ago, a group of women in Germany took the streets to protest and advocate the government to give working women a five day paid leave every month during their menstruating period. But you and I are in a 21st century Afrcia where many husbands and boyfriends won't allow their wives/girlfriends to cook, go out or sleep together just because she is menstruating.

Pay attention, the menstrual cycle should serve as reminder that women are divine vessels of pro creation, the embodiment of God's most precious plan for mankind, to go out and create more life.
Without the menstrual cycle and all other cycles in the amazing body of women, there wouldn't be me and you.

We realise the reason for many men's stupid misogynistic attitude towards menstruation is as a result of ignorance and that's why as usual we come to sensitise by listing below the four things every man must do when his wife or girlfriend is on her period.

1. Give Her A Warm Bath And Massage.
You should try and do this every period night before bedtime. Do it with love and with a soft music in the background.

2. Cook For Her.
Bring her breakfast in bed. Maybe not everyday but don't miss the first period day. Find a day within the 3 to 5 days to stay home with her, put on movies for her and make her favourite food.

3. Cuddle Her.
Make sure to keep her warm all night every night. Cuddle her till she begs for space.

4. Buy Her A "Period" Gift.
Yes, period gift should be a thing ☺ Every gentleman out there must get a gift for the wife or girlfriend during her period. Like a fancy set of underwear, jewelry or live flowers.
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(C) #SocialAndSmart #SocialFaculty #Menstruation

Here Are Four Things You Must Do When Your Girlfriend Or Wife Is On Her Period.

The female humans are the most relevant specie on earth. Big heart, big brain, complex biological systems, artistic body and the miracle of making babies. I don't see why anything about women should ever be used to shame women.

Sometime ago, a group of women in Germany took the streets to protest and advocate the government to give working women a five day paid leave every month during their menstruating period. But you and I are in a 21st century Afrcia where many husbands and boyfriends won't allow their wives/girlfriends to cook, go out or sleep together just because she is menstruating.

Pay attention, the menstrual cycle should serve as reminder that women are divine vessels of pro creation, the embodiment of God's most precious plan for mankind, to go out and create more life.
Without the menstrual cycle and all other cycles in the amazing body of women, there wouldn't be me and you.

We realise the reason for many men's stupid misogynistic attitude towards menstruation is as a result of ignorance and that's why as usual we come to sensitise by listing below the four things every man must do when his wife or girlfriend is on her period.

1. Give Her A Warm Bath And Massage.
You should try and do this every period night before bedtime. Do it with love and with a soft music in the background.

2. Cook For Her.
Bring her breakfast in bed. Maybe not everyday but don't miss the first period day. Find a day within the 3 to 5 days to stay home with her, put on movies for her and make her favourite food.

3. Cuddle Her.
Make sure to keep her warm all night every night. Cuddle her till she begs for space.

4. Buy Her A "Period" Gift.
Yes, period gift should be a thing ☺ Every gentleman out there must get a gift for the wife or girlfriend during her period. Like a fancy set of underwear, jewelry or live flowers.
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(C) #SocialAndSmart #SocialFaculty #Menstruation

3,089 123 21 March, 2019
Wait first. Maybe right now, your journey isn’t about love.

Maybe right now, your journey is about being alone. Maybe this is the season you are being challenged — to learn how to wake up in the middle of the bed, to finally find hope in the vacancy, hope in the quiet, hope in the way you stretch into your life and give yourself permission to take up space within it. Maybe right now, you are being shown — that you can take care of yourself, that you can depend on the person you have become, that you can be your own home no matter how life tries to weather you.

No, maybe right now your journey isn’t about love. Maybe, right now, your journey is about hope. Maybe this is the season you are being challenged to remind yourself of the beauty life has to offer you. Maybe right now, you are being given the space to discover the kinds of places that leave your bones dripping with feeling, the kinds of songs that are yours and yours alone, the kinds of people who love you in a way that does not seek to change you. Maybe right now, you are being given a chance to reclaim your joy, to make it the most natural extension of who you are, to let it spill out of your words, and your laughter, and your tears — to let it be something you believe you are worthy of, to let it be something you believe you deserve.

See maybe right now your journey isn’t about love. Maybe right now your journey is about you. Maybe this is the season you are being challenged to be your own savior, to be your own safe place. Maybe right now you are being reminded — that the people who walked away were only ever leading you back to yourself, were only ever leading you here. And here, you are okay on your own. Here, you are rebuilding. Here, you are adapting, and mending, and reclaiming all of the pieces you let them walk away with. Here, you are being kinder your soul, you are giving yourself the same kind of love you have always given to others. Here, you are not rushing your heart, you are not depending on another human being to fix it. Instead, here, you are doing that on your own. Here, you are healing.
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(C) #SocialAndSmart 📝 @rainbowsalt

Wait first. Maybe right now, your journey isn’t about love.

Maybe right now, your journey is about being alone. Maybe this is the season you are being challenged — to learn how to wake up in the middle of the bed, to finally find hope in the vacancy, hope in the quiet, hope in the way you stretch into your life and give yourself permission to take up space within it. Maybe right now, you are being shown — that you can take care of yourself, that you can depend on the person you have become, that you can be your own home no matter how life tries to weather you.

No, maybe right now your journey isn’t about love. Maybe, right now, your journey is about hope. Maybe this is the season you are being challenged to remind yourself of the beauty life has to offer you. Maybe right now, you are being given the space to discover the kinds of places that leave your bones dripping with feeling, the kinds of songs that are yours and yours alone, the kinds of people who love you in a way that does not seek to change you. Maybe right now, you are being given a chance to reclaim your joy, to make it the most natural extension of who you are, to let it spill out of your words, and your laughter, and your tears — to let it be something you believe you are worthy of, to let it be something you believe you deserve.

See maybe right now your journey isn’t about love. Maybe right now your journey is about you. Maybe this is the season you are being challenged to be your own savior, to be your own safe place. Maybe right now you are being reminded — that the people who walked away were only ever leading you back to yourself, were only ever leading you here. And here, you are okay on your own. Here, you are rebuilding. Here, you are adapting, and mending, and reclaiming all of the pieces you let them walk away with. Here, you are being kinder your soul, you are giving yourself the same kind of love you have always given to others. Here, you are not rushing your heart, you are not depending on another human being to fix it. Instead, here, you are doing that on your own. Here, you are healing.
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(C) #SocialAndSmart 📝 @rainbowsalt

1,454 18 19 April, 2019
Having sex on the first date might not be that bad afterall 🤔

Contrary to popular female belief, many guys tend to admire and respect the girl who didn't have an issue with having sex on the first day.
The truth is that sex on the first date doesn't make a girl cheap or valueless as long as she was not manipulated into it.
On the first day or after one year, what will be will be.

Most times, it has even worked out well, that a girl had sex spontaneously and then made the dude wait forever for a second date.
She will command his attention anytime; because men tend to do anything, pay anything, wait years, just to have that irregularly fantastic experience.

Every guy wants to be an sugar daddy, being a girlfriend is now like a glorified booty call.
Most guys out there are starting relationships just for the sex and hype but the good news is that girlfriends of nowadays seem to already know all these.
Girlfriends are "woking" up to the truth that most boyfriends come for the face and body so fine and sexy girls and infact all girls have learnt to get stubborn, annoying, needy, hard to get and attention seeking all on purpose.

We have seen guys that were dragged through the 90 day rule. (The practice of making a new boyfriend wait for really long time before sex).
Through all the kissings, making outs, dry humpings and then telling him "it's too early for sex" 😁
Apart from the painful blue balls, it's very easy to pretend a gentleman therefore boyfriends of nowadays can wait patiently and supportive till you are ready and then he will finally hit it, hit it again, hard, harder, and then poof, disappear.

No matter how beautiful and nice a girl is, most boys will get frustrated waiting so long for the sex to happen. The only reason he is still checking up all nice and sweet on Whatsapp is because he is waiting to get one or two vengeance sex to recover his ego.
Any girl waiting for that romantic guy who isn't interested in having sex in a relationship should stop waiting. You can't be a worldly chick and be looking for God's kind of love.

Have your say: Is a girl cheap for having sex on first date?
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(C) #SocialAndSmart #SocialFaculty #SexOnFirstDate

Having sex on the first date might not be that bad afterall 🤔

Contrary to popular female belief, many guys tend to admire and respect the girl who didn't have an issue with having sex on the first day.
The truth is that sex on the first date doesn't make a girl cheap or valueless as long as she was not manipulated into it.
On the first day or after one year, what will be will be.

Most times, it has even worked out well, that a girl had sex spontaneously and then made the dude wait forever for a second date.
She will command his attention anytime; because men tend to do anything, pay anything, wait years, just to have that irregularly fantastic experience.

Every guy wants to be an sugar daddy, being a girlfriend is now like a glorified booty call.
Most guys out there are starting relationships just for the sex and hype but the good news is that girlfriends of nowadays seem to already know all these.
Girlfriends are "woking" up to the truth that most boyfriends come for the face and body so fine and sexy girls and infact all girls have learnt to get stubborn, annoying, needy, hard to get and attention seeking all on purpose.

We have seen guys that were dragged through the 90 day rule. (The practice of making a new boyfriend wait for really long time before sex).
Through all the kissings, making outs, dry humpings and then telling him "it's too early for sex" 😁
Apart from the painful blue balls, it's very easy to pretend a gentleman therefore boyfriends of nowadays can wait patiently and supportive till you are ready and then he will finally hit it, hit it again, hard, harder, and then poof, disappear.

No matter how beautiful and nice a girl is, most boys will get frustrated waiting so long for the sex to happen. The only reason he is still checking up all nice and sweet on Whatsapp is because he is waiting to get one or two vengeance sex to recover his ego.
Any girl waiting for that romantic guy who isn't interested in having sex in a relationship should stop waiting. You can't be a worldly chick and be looking for God's kind of love.

Have your say: Is a girl cheap for having sex on first date?
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(C) #SocialAndSmart #SocialFaculty #SexOnFirstDate

3,321 132 26 August, 2018
19 Tips On How To Behave Yourself And Be Charming This Valentine And All The Time.

1 Don’t talk too much. Talk only when needed, in a slow, understandable manner. Smile.

2 Don't laugh too much. He who laughs last becomes the source of a new laugh.

3 Be polymathic. Read the news, be acquainted with the latest trends in politics, sports, technology and or whatever interests you. Always acknowledge other people’s opinions but have a firm ground of your own opinions.

4 Don’t lean forward while standing. Stand firm, straight with your chest wide open but not arrogantly.

5 Maintain eye contact while talking. This may take practice but you can start from other parts of the head.

6 When it comes to making decisions, be very good at it. Do your homework beforehand and once you take a decision, stand by it.

7 Have a passion for something extracurricular and be very good at it. For example, sports, music, literature, photography, art.

8 Remember, focus is the key. Always maintain the vision for who you are and what you want to be.

9 Try to have a good sense of humor but don’t make jokes a lot. Stay serious for more of the time but remain open-minded.

10 Remember, remaining serious is a skill of its own. Read point 8 again. Focus will help you remain serious.

11 While shaking hands, have a firm grip and a broad smile. This is an important personality trait.

12 Remember, good grammar is sexy.

13 Be enthusiastic, optimistic and full of positive vibes. Negativity and pessimism keep you friendless.

14 Maintain a cool attitude in every situation. Be emotionally mature and intelligent.

15 Manners maketh man. Be ethical and Atikulated 🇳🇬
.
16 Gentlemen, nothing cool about saggy pants and boxers. Ladies, under wears are not street wears.

17 Listen to others. The best conversationalist is the one who listens more than talks.

18 Read many books. The only common thing among all successful persons in the world is that they all read books.

19 Remember, failure is inevitable. Not giving up is key. This may seem off-topic point but a ‘not giving up’ attitude inspires those around you.

Add yours in comments 👇
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(C) #SocialAndSmart #SocialFaculty #ValentinesDay2019

19 Tips On How To Behave Yourself And Be Charming This Valentine And All The Time.

1 Don’t talk too much. Talk only when needed, in a slow, understandable manner. Smile.

2 Don't laugh too much. He who laughs last becomes the source of a new laugh.

3 Be polymathic. Read the news, be acquainted with the latest trends in politics, sports, technology and or whatever interests you. Always acknowledge other people’s opinions but have a firm ground of your own opinions.

4 Don’t lean forward while standing. Stand firm, straight with your chest wide open but not arrogantly.

5 Maintain eye contact while talking. This may take practice but you can start from other parts of the head.

6 When it comes to making decisions, be very good at it. Do your homework beforehand and once you take a decision, stand by it.

7 Have a passion for something extracurricular and be very good at it. For example, sports, music, literature, photography, art.

8 Remember, focus is the key. Always maintain the vision for who you are and what you want to be.

9 Try to have a good sense of humor but don’t make jokes a lot. Stay serious for more of the time but remain open-minded.

10 Remember, remaining serious is a skill of its own. Read point 8 again. Focus will help you remain serious.

11 While shaking hands, have a firm grip and a broad smile. This is an important personality trait.

12 Remember, good grammar is sexy.

13 Be enthusiastic, optimistic and full of positive vibes. Negativity and pessimism keep you friendless.

14 Maintain a cool attitude in every situation. Be emotionally mature and intelligent.

15 Manners maketh man. Be ethical and Atikulated 🇳🇬
.
16 Gentlemen, nothing cool about saggy pants and boxers. Ladies, under wears are not street wears.

17 Listen to others. The best conversationalist is the one who listens more than talks.

18 Read many books. The only common thing among all successful persons in the world is that they all read books.

19 Remember, failure is inevitable. Not giving up is key. This may seem off-topic point but a ‘not giving up’ attitude inspires those around you.

Add yours in comments 👇
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(C) #SocialAndSmart #SocialFaculty #ValentinesDay2019

3,822 27 13 February, 2019